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Struggle to get by hits home throughout our area
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![]() Tim Phaneuf is one of many Rhode Islanders who are seeking a job or unable to work. DANIEL HYLAND / THE SUN |
![]() Deb Phaneuf, left, and her husand have struggled with seeking work. They have been helped by Hopkinton Director of Public Welfare Marjorie Rekowski, right. DANIEL HYLAND / THE SUN |
Now, unable to work for medical reasons and behind on their bills, the Westerly couple faces eviction with nowhere to go.
In Hopkinton, Deborah and Tim Phaneuf cope with a dilemma on a Friday night. They have two daughters to feed and only cereal to offer. The town’s director of public welfare searches her home cupboard for food for the couple, who are out of work.
Across town, a woman in her 40s turns to the Jonnycake Center for help after being laid off twice from local plants. In the past, she frequently donated to the non-profit.
The woman — who asked not to be named to avoid harming her chances for future employment — and Tim Phaneuf are among the 9.3 percent of Rhode Islanders who are unemployed.
The number of unemployed is actually greater than 9.3 percent when you add families like the DiScuillos and Deborah Phaneuf who are unable to work, and as a result, are not included in the reported jobless rate.
Rhode Island continues to have one of the country’s highest rates of people who are unemployed and actively seeking work, according to statistics released Friday by the state Department of Labor and Training.
November’s jobless rate remained unchanged from one month earlier, although the state lost about 4,000 payroll jobs.
The Ocean State exceeds the national average of 6.7 percent and is only trumped by Michigan, where 9.6 percent of residents classify themselves as seeking employment.
State and national rates have been seasonally adjusted, meaning factors like weather and holidays are considered. The percentages are also typically considered to under-represent reality as people have given up actively seeking work.Of local towns, Charlestown has the highest rate at 7.8 percent, followed by Hopkinton at 7.2 percent, Westerly at 6.9 percent, and Richmond at 5.1 percent. All town unemployment rates — which are not seasonally adjusted — have nearly doubled in one year.
For the families that find themselves a part of these statistics, the past months have been full of worry and navigating social services.
Nowhere to go
The DiScuillos never imagined they would face eviction from their Beacon Street home. George DiScuillo, 57, said he was raised to work hard and help others. He took his first job as a dishwasher at 14, and cooked at several local establishments before spending 37 years on the road as a truck driver.
His wife, Denise, worked five years as a medical assistant and held jobs cleaning houses and at a day camp.
In the past year, the couple has been crippled by a spate of terrible luck.
Denise has been out of work since March, following rotator cuff surgery. In August, she fell on the stairs and broke her ankle. She also developed chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, which makes breathing difficult, and requires oxygen 24-7.
In October, George blacked out and flipped his truck in Ohio. He suffered a broken jaw and a bleed in his brain. Denise was riding with him and broke her wrist.
Also a diabetic, George has been instructed by his neurologist not to drive. Today, he suffers dizzy spells and does not drive for fear he will injure himself or another person. And just two weeks ago, George had a pacemaker put in, limiting his movement.
George has been denied worker’s compensation based on a finding that he had a heart attack. He said his doctors denied the cause and he has enlisted a lawyer.
They have applied for Social Security disability insurance and hope to hear if they have qualified for state general public assistance, which provides a weekly $50 stipend. They do not qualify for unemployment benefits because they are unable to work.
As they wait, the DiScuillos have gotten by with food stamps and help from the Jonnycake Center and WARM Shelter. Their two adult sons have helped by buying essentials like toilet paper and soap, but the sons struggle to make ends meet for their own families.
A proud man, George said he does not want his children to provide for him.
Three months behind on rent, the DiScuillos received notice from their landlord that, as of Dec. 5, they had to be out of the home they share with their 22-year-old daughter and toddler granddaughter. Their daughter, who is unemployed and seeking work, gets by on food stamps and aid from the state’s Family Independence Program (FIP).
They do not know where to go, so they wait for the court to force them out. Denise said she will not be able to treat her four grandchildren this Christmas, but she did put up a tinsel-trimmed tree for her granddaughter.
In the past, the couple had the means to take in six people in need and care for Denise’s mother for eight years.
“There’s many people that I brought into my home who were down and out,” Denise says, tearing up. “I was able to help them out. Now that it’s my turn and [there is no help]. I’m going to be 57 years old and I’ve never had to go through this.”
“I’ve never been this down and out,” George says. “I’ve always had work. I’ve always made sure a roof was over my kids’ heads.”
“I keep telling you, it’s not your fault,” Denise tells her husband.
George described the process of calling state and local agencies depressing, and is angered as he watches the federal government bail out the banking and auto industries.
“I’m just here trying to survive,” he said.
George manages to hold out some hope for the future, however, adding, “You have to look over the horizon. There’s got to be something better coming.”
A community pitches in
Tim Phaneuf wants to work.
“He’s one of those handymen,” his wife, Deborah, described the carpenter fondly.
However, a carpal tunnel injury has kept him out of a job. He was scheduled to have surgery in September, but could not get to Providence to see his doctor. The couple has been unable to replace, or fix, their broken van.
Tim has been seeking odd jobs, but has had no luck yet, said Hopkinton Director of Public Welfare Marjorie Naylor Rekowski.
He offered to fix a gutter at her house, but Rekowski said her husband declined because of Tim’s injury. If he were healed, they would hire him.
Rekowski first met the family when she gave them food from her cabinets on that Friday night three months ago.
After hearing about the occurrence, Deputy Town Clerk Lorraine Arruda initiated an ongoing non-perishable food drive at Town Hall “because even after Christmas, they’re still going to have to eat.”
So far, three bins of canned goods have been collected. Rekowski said she’ll use the food for emergency meals if a resident calls her when food pantries are closed.
The town also gave the couple’s school-aged daughters two winter jackets, collected in a coat drive led by Recreation Director Mary Sawyer, Arruda said.
Rekowski has also steered the family to the First Baptist Church in Hope Valley for help with groceries, and to Wood River Health Services.
The family coped with one of its biggest challenges this fall. Their landlord initially told the Phaneufs they could stay for a year, but with two weeks notice he ordered them out earlier than expected, Deborah and Rekowski said.
Now they reside in a motel in Richmond where they have a mini-fridge and a small freezer, but no stove or telephone. They have run out of minutes on their prepaid cell phone.
“It would be cheaper to live in a house, but we couldn’t find one,” Rekowski said.
Deborah said she receives supplemental disability benefits from the federal government intended to cover food, shelter and clothing costs — but she is worried about receiving the check in time to pay the weekly rent at the motel.
She has tried to turn the room into a home, posting Christmas decals of manger scenes and snowmen in the window. Her Christmas wish is “a home for the girls.”
Should they find one, Deborah said it is important to live in the area so her daughters can remain in the same school. The family stayed with a relative in North Kingstown when they moved from Pennsylvania 2½ years ago, before living on their own while Tim worked in Connecticut.
Although the family now lives outside Hopkinton, Rekowski said she feels compelled to help them through the holidays. Standing with Deborah outside the motel, she commended her for always smiling.
Deborah admitted times are dire, but said, “I can’t [show it] with the kids and all.”
Plant closure casualty
After losing her job at Bradford Dyeing Association last year, the unnamed woman interviewed by The Sun used her perfect attendance, appetite to learn and work ethic to land a job at another local factory — only to be laid off again this fall.
Finding employment had never been an issue for her. Before working at BDA, she held three jobs for nearly 20 years and volunteered at places like the former Mystic Oral School.
She said she hasn’t lived extravagantly. And whenever there had been a question of survival, her solution was to work more, but “now there isn’t anything.”
The woman keeps a folder filled with information on state and local assistance programs and notes dated with when she called each one.
“I’ve got a list of resources, but no direction to go in,” she said, admitting, “It’s not just me.”
After she telephoned the state’s unemployment office repeatedly each day for two weeks, a worker answered her call.
She learned her prior claim from BDA had yet to expire. She received one check before the claim lapsed, then waited three weeks for a payment after she had re-applied under her last employer.
When she began to receive checks again, her husband was laid off.
She has yet to receive a reply from the state’s food stamp program after applying last month. A representative told her the program has 30 days to answer, at which time it would schedule an appointment to determine her eligibility.
She heard back from South County Community Action about heating assistance about two weeks after making contact. The agency scheduled a mid-January appointment to review her case.
By then, she likely will not meet poverty requirements for the assistance programs, because she expects that both she and her husband will be collecting unemployment. What she really wants, of course, is a job.
The woman acknowledges such programs, especially those run by the state, are overwhelmed, but added, “It’s discouraging. It’s really sad.”
Some local agencies have turned her away from their Christmas programs, she said, because her two sons — in their early 20s and teens — do not live with her and are considered too old.
She and her husband face losing their medical insurance this month. Her eldest son has also seen his work hours significantly cut and is without health care. She said she does not qualify for RIte Care, the state’s Medicaid health care program, which targets uninsured pregnant women and parents with children up to 19 years old.
“I think they try to keep most of the focus on the younger children, which is great… but it’s all age groups” that need help, she said.
As difficult as it has been, the woman credits food pantries run by the Trinity Lutheran Church in Ashaway and the Society of St. Vincent de Paul at the Immaculate Conception Church in Westerly.
“If it wasn’t for all of the little churches and stuff, I don’t know how I would make it,” she said.
And she said compassion shown by Cindy Gardiner, social services manager at Wood River Health Services, has helped: “I really think that she truly cares… She gives you a hug when you walk in.”
She also seeks help at places like the Bradford Jonnycake Center, a trip that holds bitter irony considering she used to donate often to the center.
“I’m going to survive this, I know I will,” she said. “Just when is it going to end?”
Tennessee wrote on Dec 22, 2008 12:35 PM:
RE: Family wrote on Dec 21, 2008 11:42 PM:
It is important that the readers recognize that we are hearing one side. We did not hear from the "families" that you suggest they call upon. It may not be that they are just ill equipped, there could well be a history that was passed over in the interview. Point being, there are two sides to every situation... "
So tell me..... wrote on Dec 21, 2008 10:45 PM:
Re: If You Build It wrote on Dec 21, 2008 10:35 PM:
Read wrote on Dec 21, 2008 10:31 PM:
If someone in my family needs shelter, there is a place for them. If we have to sleep on the floor, so be it. It is only in recent times that so many have come to look upon government as a replacement for family.
Not only are families weakened by the government taking such a large role in getting people through lives' difficulties, but charities are also weakened as many people consider paying taxes to be charity enough.
Probably too late to turn it around and expect people to get back to valuing family before government, but it is a shame. "
m in TN wrote on Dec 21, 2008 9:48 PM:
We have some local programs to help these families but here it's the churches that do 90%. Sad part is, the families that abuse the systems and get lots from all over. They need to wake up and take their share. We also now have a medical facility that is sponsored by churches for the working uninsured. Everyone there volunteers their time. It's a great concept and really helps people. KNow that you are not alone. Many of us are a paycheck away from losing everything due to our society. "
JAN wrote on Dec 21, 2008 9:30 PM:
Single mom wrote on Dec 21, 2008 8:52 PM:
Richie wrote on Dec 21, 2008 8:23 PM:
FaFACTS wrote on Dec 21, 2008 7:09 PM:
Hopkinton social worker receives $900-yrly to refer needy people to other agencies , she has no purse to assist needy. Passing the Buck ! Salvation Army gives her 10 Christmas Baskets to distribute.
Charlestown ,Deb Nigrelli, public asst. worker gave her $5000- to assist needy. Plus she has pantry located at ST Mary's there she has many grants to assist. They require all personal data copy of checks ,benefits,ss etc given to volunteers. Just be very careful not to accept any expired foods.
A medical van visits this location call them for more inf. Plus a Christmas toy program,clothing & furn.
Richmond also has Deb Nigrelli as their public asst worker there she disburses monies from two funds left by a local husband and wife for the needy. Utils. ,heat food, Christmas they use to provide a $100 Stop & Shop gift cert at Christmas.
Westerly hm Turo has told needy to go to Churches ,agencies etc. New animal shelter at $2million .
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women in 40,s wrote on Dec 21, 2008 2:34 PM:
If you build it they will come... wrote on Dec 21, 2008 2:07 PM:
ginny wrote on Dec 21, 2008 11:31 AM:
Merry Christmas wrote on Dec 21, 2008 11:29 AM:
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US/RI CITIZEN wrote on Dec 21, 2008 11:02 AM:
Re: Family wrote on Dec 21, 2008 10:57 AM:
Family wrote on Dec 21, 2008 9:51 AM:
thankful wrote on Dec 21, 2008 9:14 AM:
Westerly officilas have always said its best to leave the matter of the poor to the local churches and branch offices of state Social Service agencies. (the ones that are left!) The well-meaning but factionilized group called THE BASIC NEEDS (churches, some state or quasi-state agencies, local food pantries, etc.) group passes for Westerly Human Servces department. Its too big a job here now. Get it together Westerly. "
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